Miss W is feeling desperate about her marriage. The chart on the left represents and can reveal her life, in its entirety or every stage of her life. It can also reveal her interactions and relationship with others who are significant in her life, if that particular person's year of birth is also provided.
What can I tell her about her marriage at this stage?
1. Ms. W is a strong-willed woman, beautiful, and intelligent. However, her Fu-de ( or fortune/virtue) Palace (governing her mental and spiritual status) has stars that form a malicious structure.
2. Two good stars, hualu and lucun, shine directly into her Marriage Palace, and have the effect of making her long for marriage. This urge is especially powerful because, as described above, she constantly feels lonely.
3. As fate will have it, her husband sits right there where to two good stars are, which means she falls for him easily and want give her love to him and care for him. The problem is, her husband's Marriage Palace sits right where her Fu-de Palace. The stars in that palace show signs that he's cold, harsh, capricious, and unpredictable. It also form a structure of Guasu--which means living alone. So that tells me she cannot feel love from her husband. If things can get worse, it does.
4. Miss W is now 40 years old in lunar calendar. In this decade (da-xian), Tan-lang is transformed by star of Ji (which means unpleasant, troubling) and shine directly into her husband's already bad Marriage Palace. You think it's bad enough? No! This year, the year of dragon, doubles the power of the Ji, making it that much worse.
5. You might ask, if her husband is like that, why did she married him in the first place? Well, they got married in 2006.That year doubled the Hualu and Lucun stars, making Miss W extraordinarily wanted to marry. And as we discussed earlier, Miss W just simply cannot resist men of the year of rat--her husband.
6. However, the marriage was destined to be difficult: Her husband's year of birth brought Ji (the bad transformation star) to Miss W's Marriage Palace of this current da-xian (a decade), as well of that of her Marriage Palace at birth (which determines the whole life). The year they were married (2006) brought Hualu to her Marriage Palace of that year as well as the decade (da-xian). So, as we can predict, the love between the couple was destined to be short-lived.
There are still so much more information contained in this chart. For example, was the courting and dating process back in 2005-2006 problematic? Was he involved in another relationship at that time or even married? Apparently he does not love Miss W, but why did he want to date her? For sex? ........